I've had enough. Honest to God, i really can't take it anymore. Why is it so hard to put aside some time out of your precious day to meet up with friends? hey i'm not being unreasonable here. i understand that people have other responsibilities and other plans. but hey if they are able to put some time to these other things, why can't they spare an hour or two just to meet up over some drinks? i guess i've been keeping it inside for very long. but now, i just can't do that anymore. If you care for your friends, make time for them. Take time to ask them how they have been. Make an effort to bond and basically just give a shit.

My mum has always been telling me how when we grow up our friends change and soon enough they disappear. I used to tell her that she's jaded, that it's gonna be different for me. but lately, it's been difficult to even convince myself otherwise. Furthermore, as i grow up, i see friends 'prioritizing' friends. If that even makes sense. I'm not saying i'm not guilty of it. i'm just saying we've got to stop doing that. i hate the fact that one can make time for some friends, but for others, they're totally booked or because of some other lame reason. i'm not talking about one's boyfriend/girlfriend/partner, that's a whole different issue. I'm talking about the 'categories' that people put their friends in. like when we did in primary school remember? ' friend percentage - 50%' c'mon don't act like you're not guilty of it.

Basically what i want to say is that, if you wanna be my friend, act like one. If you don't think this friendship is worth your precious time, then tell me, seriously. i won't be bothered to try and set dates to meet up and stuff. You'll just be one of the many people on my facebook friend list who are ironically not my friends. Join them.